Reeds ruffs

Ruff, I’m Reed.  I’m really quite adorable.  Wanna see what I look like.  Here is a picture of me and my sister, but I’m the cuter one of the two. 

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I live with my sister Rian and mom, Chari.  I just found out that my sister has written a blog on moms site and it really bothered me that no one told me.  Those two women always keep secrets from me.  I think they are jealous cuz I’m so cute and loveable.  I just want to share a little bit of my life with you since the girls are always hogging the computer.

Now, I’m known as a lover and not a fighter.  My sister is a bitch.  She’s always picking fights with me and hogging all the attention.  We are going to be 4 years old soon and we really have a pretty nice life.  My mom spoils us rotten.  I have another mom that lives in Seattle.  She comes to see us sometimes and sometimes we go to see her.  When we go there we get to see our step sister Missy.  Missy likes to be the boss also.  What is it with these women?  I’m the only man in this family and yet these women are always controlling things.  Every once in awhile I show them by peeing on stuff.  I can see my mom gets mad but oh well.  Well, I’ve got to take a nap.  I’ll show you some more pictures of myself now.

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K&R  Me and Kris…he’s my brother.

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Well, I gotta run. scratch and turn around in a circle 20 times before I find a nice comfortable spot to take a nap.  Send treats if you want.  Send me comments and if you like me I’ll write more.  Ruff.

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As the job burns.

I like what I do for a living.  However, the management there is really, really bad.  I’ve even told them as much in a meeting.  They fight amongst each other because we have one evil demon seed that continues to turn up the burner in the hell she has created in our office.  She is a liar, manipulator, scammer, kiss ass and just the biggest nastiest person I’ve ever worked with.  Why?  Why do people have to be this way?  We have to go in to work every single day, five (well four days now) days a week.  We spend a lot of time together.  Why can’t we all just get along?  I just found out today that my direct manager is retiring.  Now we are all worried that we will have to report directly to lucifer.  This will make each and every one of our lives even more miserable than before.  If only this person knew that we would all respect her/him more if we got some respect back.  I feel sorry for her/him in a way.  People like that must be really unhappy with who they are and have no other way of looking at the world but with very mean and vindictive eyes.  I pity her/him.

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Gold mining some fowl on Sunday.

This sunday I’m going to see my first football game here in San Francisco.  The 49ers are hosting the Seahawks.  My son is a die hard 49er fan and I’m gonna represent the Seahawks.  Our jerseys are ready.  I’ve got some tissues for Kris to dry his tears.  But we haven’t made any bets yet.  Any suggestions? 

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Now I do fear for my life a little bit as the 49er fans are desparate for a win.  If they don’t win they might start acting like the Raider fans and hurt me.  Seriously!  Kris says I might get yelled at.  People get really drunk before the game and get wild.  This is all the shit I’m hearing from the two ball sacks that are sitting in the room with me right now.  They are just jealous.  They know i’m gonna walk out of that stadium with a smile on my face, while they sulk.  Poor sports.  Now, I think we should all go and just enjoy the game.  If there are any good stories to tell, I’ll be back to tell them.  Stay tuned.

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We’re…..off to the zoo

Last weekend my brother Charlie had his three little girls here with us for the weekend.  He has twin 4 year olds and a 1 1/2 year old.  We decided to take them to the zoo.  However I want to say for the record that I wanted to go to Fairytale Town!!!!  But since it wasn’t really for me and the girls wanted to go to the zoo, that’s where we went.  Now the last time I was at the zoo we had an elephant and rhinoceros, but they were not there anymore.  I was very disappointed.  They zoo didn’t seem to have a lot of animals that it used to.  There were no tigers, lions, hippopotamus, gorilla or bears.  We saw a lot of birds, a few monkeys, three giraffes a few zebras, etc. We had fun.  Here are some pictures to share with you.

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My aunt and the three girls.  We were waiting for Charlie to park the truck.

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In line to pay.   I’m not sure what they are discussing.

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Little Savannah Jo got to ride in a jeep safari.  Man was i jealous!

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Cheyanne and Ciara.

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Ciara and Savannah.

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Jeffrey

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Jeffrey’s peeps.

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Cheyanne and Charlie.

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Orangatang.

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Monkey.

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The girls wanted to go on the merry go round.  They each picked an animal, but once Charlie and I got them on there they decided they want to sit on the peacock.  Charlie snuck on the panda.  He almost broke the darn thing.

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Here are all three on the merry go round.  It was a fun day. The girls were spoiled rotten.  Okay, okay we saw the animals, next time ITS FAIRYTALE TOWN!!!!

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Graduating with pride

A few weeks back I jet setted into Seattle for the weekend to attend Valria’s nieces graduation ceremony from Job Corp.  We (her family) are all so proud of the woman she has become.  I got in Thursday night and when I walked in the door there was missy, Bentley and Doodles.  I’m already in love with Missy, but I also fell in love with Bentley and Doodles, the minature poodles.  Look at these faces.

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Here are pictures of the lovely, proud graduate, Taylor.

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I didn’t get the best of pictures, but I tried.  So very proud of her.  It was a great trip.  Very busy as we had a bbq for taylor the next day and into the evening.  There was even a game of guess what airline is flying over Valria’s house (cuz she lives in a flight path) and the looser got to take a shot of tequila.  Whoa! There are planes going over her house every few minutes and needless to say Della’s boyfriend Brock, Amber, Carlos and I drank all the tequila in the house.  It was a great time.  We all sat around talking about everything and anything.  I had a great weekend.  What a lucky girl I am.

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Kris’s Birthday Cake..unedited version

kriscake10I made Kris a four layer, fruit basket cake for his birthday.  He loves sour candies and I wanted to incorporate some of his favorites into the cake.  So besides the layers of strawberries, bananas and kiwi is the raspberries and sweet and sour candies.  I had fun making it and he had fun eating it.  I did have a piece yesterday and another today, but I felt like I really had to…so I wouldn’t offend the baker…hehehe.

 

 

 

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The pictures are out of order because my computer is not cooperating, but you get the drift.

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And then the finished product… TA DA!!!

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Another cake down and i’m glad that my better half is the expert so that I could call her for help.  Thanks Valria.  Happy Birthday Kris.  I love you so very much.

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Poem

I’m clearing out my second bedroom for my brother which has been an on going project.  I came across a poem my mom had on her wall.  So far, no tears over just finding it.  But I really wanted to share it.  The author is unknown, but here it goes.

A little mixed up

Just a line to say I’m living,

That i’m not among the dead.

Though I’m getting more forgetful

and mixed up in the head.

For sometimes I don’t remember,

When I stand at the foot of the stair.

If I must go up for something,

or have I just come from there instead.

And before the fridge so often,

my mind is filled with doubt.

Have I just put some food away,

or have I come to take some out?

And there are times when it is dark out,

and my nightcap on my head.

You don’t know if your retiring,

or if  it’s time to get out of bed.

So if it is my turn to write you,

no need for getting sore.

I may think I have written,

and don’t want to be a bore.

So remember that I love you,

and I wish you were here.

But it is nearly mail time,

so I must say goodbye, my dear.

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There I stood beside the mailbox with my face so very red,  instead of mailing you my letter I opened it instead!

I think this was a poem my sweet grandmother had on her wall and even though they have both past I just can’t bring myself to hang it.  Those two women were the reason for my smile.  It’s hard to be without them so it’s hard to see things that remind me that they are not here.  I’d rather just think that this poem is still hanging on their walls and remember the loving childhood they provided me.  Ok, enough mushy stuff.

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William Wordsworth. 1770–1850

 Ode: Intimations of Immortality from Recollections of Early Childhood

 http://rpo.library.utoronto.ca/poem/2352.html

 There was a time when meadow, grove, and stream,

 
    The earth, and every common sight,  
            To me did seem  
    Apparell’d in celestial light,  
The glory and the freshness of a dream.          5
It is not now as it hath been of yore;—  
        Turn wheresoe’er I may,  
            By night or day,  
The things which I have seen I now can see no more.  
 
        The rainbow comes and goes,   10
        And lovely is the rose;  
        The moon doth with delight  
    Look round her when the heavens are bare;  
        Waters on a starry night  
        Are beautiful and fair;   15
    The sunshine is a glorious birth;  
    But yet I know, where’er I go,  
That there hath pass’d away a glory from the earth.  
 
Now, while the birds thus sing a joyous song,  
    And while the young lambs bound   20
        As to the tabor’s sound,  
To me alone there came a thought of grief:  
A timely utterance gave that thought relief,  
        And I again am strong:  
The cataracts blow their trumpets from the steep;   25
No more shall grief of mine the season wrong;  
I hear the echoes through the mountains throng,  
The winds come to me from the fields of sleep,  
        And all the earth is gay;  
            Land and sea   30
    Give themselves up to jollity,  
      And with the heart of May  
    Doth every beast keep holiday;—  
          Thou Child of Joy,  
Shout round me, let me hear thy shouts, thou happy   35
    Shepherd-boy!  
 
Ye blessèd creatures, I have heard the call  
    Ye to each other make; I see  
The heavens laugh with you in your jubilee;  
    My heart is at your festival,   40
      My head hath its coronal,  
The fulness of your bliss, I feel—I feel it all.  
        O evil day! if I were sullen  
        While Earth herself is adorning,  
            This sweet May-morning,   45
        And the children are culling  
            On every side,  
        In a thousand valleys far and wide,  
        Fresh flowers; while the sun shines warm,  
And the babe leaps up on his mother’s arm:—   50
        I hear, I hear, with joy I hear!  
        —But there’s a tree, of many, one,  
A single field which I have look’d upon,  
Both of them speak of something that is gone:  
          The pansy at my feet   55
          Doth the same tale repeat:  
Whither is fled the visionary gleam?  
Where is it now, the glory and the dream?  
 
Our birth is but a sleep and a forgetting:  
The Soul that rises with us, our life’s Star,   60
        Hath had elsewhere its setting,  
          And cometh from afar:  
        Not in entire forgetfulness,  
        And not in utter nakedness,  
But trailing clouds of glory do we come   65
        From God, who is our home:  
Heaven lies about us in our infancy!  
Shades of the prison-house begin to close  
        Upon the growing Boy,  
But he beholds the light, and whence it flows,   70
        He sees it in his joy;  
The Youth, who daily farther from the east  
    Must travel, still is Nature’s priest,  
      And by the vision splendid  
      Is on his way attended;   75
At length the Man perceives it die away,  
And fade into the light of common day.  
 
Earth fills her lap with pleasures of her own;  
Yearnings she hath in her own natural kind,  
And, even with something of a mother’s mind,   80
        And no unworthy aim,  
    The homely nurse doth all she can  
To make her foster-child, her Inmate Man,  
    Forget the glories he hath known,  
And that imperial palace whence he came.   85
 
Behold the Child among his new-born blisses,  
A six years’ darling of a pigmy size!  
See, where ‘mid work of his own hand he lies,  
Fretted by sallies of his mother’s kisses,  
With light upon him from his father’s eyes!   90
See, at his feet, some little plan or chart,  
Some fragment from his dream of human life,  
Shaped by himself with newly-learnèd art;  
    A wedding or a festival,  
    A mourning or a funeral;   95
        And this hath now his heart,  
    And unto this he frames his song:  
        Then will he fit his tongue  
To dialogues of business, love, or strife;  
        But it will not be long  100
        Ere this be thrown aside,  
        And with new joy and pride  
The little actor cons another part;  
Filling from time to time his ‘humorous stage’  
With all the Persons, down to palsied Age,  105
That Life brings with her in her equipage;  
        As if his whole vocation  
        Were endless imitation.  
 
Thou, whose exterior semblance doth belie  
        Thy soul’s immensity;  110
Thou best philosopher, who yet dost keep  
Thy heritage, thou eye among the blind,  
That, deaf and silent, read’st the eternal deep,  
Haunted for ever by the eternal mind,—  
        Mighty prophet! Seer blest!  115
        On whom those truths do rest,  
Which we are toiling all our lives to find,  
In darkness lost, the darkness of the grave;  
Thou, over whom thy Immortality  
Broods like the Day, a master o’er a slave,  120
A presence which is not to be put by;  
          To whom the grave  
Is but a lonely bed without the sense or sight  
        Of day or the warm light,  
A place of thought where we in waiting lie;  125
Thou little Child, yet glorious in the might  
Of heaven-born freedom on thy being’s height,  
Why with such earnest pains dost thou provoke  
The years to bring the inevitable yoke,  
Thus blindly with thy blessedness at strife?  130
Full soon thy soul shall have her earthly freight,  
And custom lie upon thee with a weight,  
Heavy as frost, and deep almost as life!  
 
        O joy! that in our embers  
        Is something that doth live,  135
        That nature yet remembers  
        What was so fugitive!  
The thought of our past years in me doth breed  
Perpetual benediction: not indeed  
For that which is most worthy to be blest—  140
Delight and liberty, the simple creed  
Of childhood, whether busy or at rest,  
With new-fledged hope still fluttering in his breast:—  
        Not for these I raise  
        The song of thanks and praise;  145
    But for those obstinate questionings  
    Of sense and outward things,  
    Fallings from us, vanishings;  
    Blank misgivings of a Creature  
Moving about in worlds not realized,  150
High instincts before which our mortal Nature  
Did tremble like a guilty thing surprised:  
        But for those first affections,  
        Those shadowy recollections,  
      Which, be they what they may,  155
Are yet the fountain-light of all our day,  
Are yet a master-light of all our seeing;  
  Uphold us, cherish, and have power to make  
Our noisy years seem moments in the being  
Of the eternal Silence: truths that wake,  160
            To perish never:  
Which neither listlessness, nor mad endeavour,  
            Nor Man nor Boy,  
Nor all that is at enmity with joy,  
Can utterly abolish or destroy!  165
    Hence in a season of calm weather  
        Though inland far we be,  
Our souls have sight of that immortal sea  
        Which brought us hither,  
    Can in a moment travel thither,  170
And see the children sport upon the shore,  
And hear the mighty waters rolling evermore.  
 
Then sing, ye birds, sing, sing a joyous song!  
        And let the young lambs bound  
        As to the tabor’s sound!  175
We in thought will join your throng,  
      Ye that pipe and ye that play,  
      Ye that through your hearts to-day  
      Feel the gladness of the May!  
What though the radiance which was once so bright  180
Be now for ever taken from my sight,  
    Though nothing can bring back the hour  
Of splendour in the grass, of glory in the flower;  
      We will grieve not, rather find  
      Strength in what remains behind;  185
      In the primal sympathy  
      Which having been must ever be;  
      In the soothing thoughts that spring  
      Out of human suffering;  
      In the faith that looks through death,  190
In years that bring the philosophic mind.  
 
And O ye Fountains, Meadows, Hills, and Groves,  
Forebode not any severing of our loves!  
Yet in my heart of hearts I feel your might;  
I only have relinquish’d one delight  195
To live beneath your more habitual sway.  
I love the brooks which down their channels fret,  
Even more than when I tripp’d lightly as they;  
The innocent brightness of a new-born Day  
            Is lovely yet;  200
The clouds that gather round the setting sun  
Do take a sober colouring from an eye  
That hath kept watch o’er man’s mortality;  
Another race hath been, and other palms are won.  
Thanks to the human heart by which we live,  205
Thanks to its tenderness, its joys, and fears,  
To me the meanest flower that blows can give  
Thoughts that do often lie too deep for tears.  

I hear a few lines of this poem and I wanted to read the whole thing.  I didn’t realize how long it would be.  Even still, it’s worth the time.

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Family

I spent the evening with my brother last night.  He drove down from Yuba City and we went to Second Saturday.  Second Saturday is a community event that allows the people of downtown Sacramento to get together, shop, eat, drink and enjoy the culture that we have developed here.  Residents display their art, jewelry, music, food and anything else that they enjoy.  You see dogs with their peeps, awesome bicycles,  musicians doing their thing, interesting people and wonderful art.  My brother and I went to support my friend Nicola, aka Lola Pinkwater.  She was selling jewelry and knitted hats that she made.  This is Nic’s second showing.  Her first showing was of her art.  We mingled and my brother bought a necklace.  We had ice coffee and dinner at Hamburger Mary’s.  All in all it was a good night.  Family dynamics are interesting to me as to how they evolve.  We love them because they are our family.  We spend time with them and sometimes go a very long time without even seeing them or talking to them.  There are sometimes very good reasons why we don’t see or talk to them often.  Sometimes we dread holidays because of the family dynamics.  I think it is something I need to practice more, the art of appreciating my family.  If you really think about it, without them you feel very alone in the world.  We spend all our time with our immediate family when we are growing up and then distance ourselves when we become adults to find our way and become the person we are separate from them.  Then, as we grow older we come back around to wanting to spend time with them because they are so much a part of us.  I enjoyed my time with my brother last night.  He will be moving in with me in September and I hope we can get to know each other more and maybe learn from it.

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Today

Today I will think in the moment.

I will enjoy what I’m doing when I’m doing it.

I will be kind and caring to all I come across,

as I do not know where they have been.

I will be better to myself.

I will take better care of myself.

I will think before I speak,

and only speak when it is my turn.

Today is a new day of awareness.

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